I recently asked a question about my mother in law and listed the question below, but today when I tried to discuss how out of line his mother was with him he said she was right. I am a stay at home mom of two little boys. The only people I can talk to are my friends who don’t have kids or friends who are not going thru the things I am going thru plus my mother is never there for me, I feel as if I have no one, I feel like a bad mom, I feel like dying.
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My husband and I just got married a month ago on the 10th, we been together 4 years prior and have had 2 little boys. My mother in law use to always come over unannounced which made me start to not like her at first, then every time she seen something wrong she always say how she would do things. Even though I didn’t like this and only mentioned it to my husband who was only my boyfriend at the time, I kept it to myself. She buys a lot of toys and clothes for my boys and I always shared things with her, and she always ask me to take her places, pick her up from work, cause she has no car or license, and we even brought her a $ 150 necklace for mothers day this year. But this is what I don’t get
1) I brought a dining room set for my house so my family could eat like a normal family at the Table instead of in front of the t.v.? She ask why ‘d I buy that table she said would t have got it.
2) She complains about the way I style my kids hair
3) She always is coming over to my house
4) She tells me I care more for my dogs than my children when I take my children everywhere, to the park to the museum, etc. I just gave my 3 year old a 0 B day Party which she ruined by trying to control it, I just spent 0 dollars on their christmas clothes, I teach them everyday, I read to them every night, and put classical music in their room to soothe them to sleep I am a good mother
5) Friday my dog died and she was mad because I shed tears over him and got into an argument with my husband about it which I decided to go for a walk to cool off so I wouldn t argue infront of my kids, She even threatened to call Children services on me for the house not being clean the way she like! I have a toddler and a 10 month old what the **** does she expect! I need help I am ready to get a divorce, because my husband has never seen that what she is doing is a problem and he never confronts her, I don t know what to do?
4 hours ago – 4 days left to answer.
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I keep a clean house, my child gets mad when he has to get sent to his room for not following directions and throws clothes which may not be picked up when she decideds to pop up because he is to stay in his room until he picks up after himself, and it is a kids musem of discovery not a dogs, lol, I do everything for my boys she is really being mean!
3 hours ago
And also I have not said a word to her, and her and his father aren t even married, stay in the same house and he is never there. He said my son was gay for crying and he is only three, and even when she threaten me lastnight on the phone to call Chidren Services I held the phone and said nothing and she hung up on me. I have tried and tried the only thing I have not done is curse her out or raise my voice at her I respect my elders